love is not "unconditional", it is selfish... it has always been so... so, one's sense of logic duly comes to one's aid to tell oneself as to what extent one should love oneself...
but what i wanted to refer is that we are always searching for a reflection of ourselves in the one we love...in one side we want him/her to understand us perfectly without asking....and in another side we want him/her to be different...pleasure to explore each other..we want him/her to ask....
got it... i myself is a victim of this truth... the great MBAs have got a particular terminology for such a psychology...i can't recall as of now... seeing your image in others... wanting others to think and behave exactly like you... at times the belief in this duality makes you doubt yourself, your thought-process, the position where you stand... the biggest difficulty arises when the person at the receiving end is the one whom you really love...
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love is not "unconditional", it is selfish... it has always been so... so, one's sense of logic duly comes to one's aid to tell oneself as to what extent one should love oneself...
mirror won't suffice, dear...
yes you are right .....
but what i wanted to refer is that we are always searching for a reflection of ourselves in the one we love...in one side we want him/her to understand us perfectly without asking....and in another side we want him/her to be different...pleasure to explore each other..we want him/her to ask....
i was referring to that duality
got it... i myself is a victim of this truth... the great MBAs have got a particular terminology for such a psychology...i can't recall as of now... seeing your image in others... wanting others to think and behave exactly like you... at times the belief in this duality makes you doubt yourself, your thought-process, the position where you stand... the biggest difficulty arises when the person at the receiving end is the one whom you really love...
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